I have a tendency to raise my hand.
Yes, I'm a people pleaser, sometimes. And a problem fixer. Also, I have learned that I like to have a say in how things get done. Given all these factors, I'm the only one who is surprised to see my fingers waving in the air when there's a call for help. Maybe the PTA needs someone to bake a cake, or the church needs someone to manage an event or the quilt guild needs someone serve on a committee.
Honest to goodness, I need to duct tape my wrists to my belt if I'm going to get any quilting done in the next months.
No more volunteering, well, except for...